This is What Kate Wants from Adrian: Talk It Out!
This table shows the things Kate expects from Adrian in their relationship. Take a look and see if these are similar to the things you want in your own relationship.
- Are there things on this list that you expect too?
- Are there any missing things that are really important to you?
Talking about expectations with your partner can help you understand each other better and build a stronger relationship!
| Expectation | What is not met |
|---|---|
| Help around the house: Picking up after himself, sharing chores like dishes or laundry. | More work for Kate, feeling unsupported. |
| Listen when she talks: Paying attention, looking at her, not interrupting. | Feeling ignored, like her thoughts don’t matter. |
| Be honest and truthful: Telling the truth, even if it’s hard. | Feeling like she can’t trust him, worried he’s hiding something. |
| Be kind and respectful: Using nice words, not yelling or name-calling. | Feeling hurt or disrespected, arguments. |
| Help with decisions: Talking things through, considering her opinion. | Feeling unimportant, like her ideas don’t matter. |
| Be on time: Arriving when he says he will, letting her know if he’s running late. | Feeling frustrated, plans get messed up. |
| Be tidy: Putting things away after using them, keeping shared spaces clean. | Feeling like she’s the only one cleaning up, messy house. |
| Be supportive: Cheering her on, believing in her goals and dreams. | Feeling alone, like he doesn’t care about her success. |
| Plan fun things together: Date nights, weekend outings, making time for each other. | Feeling bored or neglected, relationship gets stale. |
| Communicate openly: Talking about feelings, concerns, and needs. | Feeling confused or frustrated, problems don’t get solved. |
| Be affectionate: Showing he cares with hugs, kisses, or holding hands. | Feeling lonely or unwanted, lack of connection. |
| Celebrate special occasions: Birthdays, holidays, anniversaries, making them special. | Feeling forgotten or unimportant, missed opportunities to connect. |
| Share household responsibilities: Taking care of bills, groceries, or errands. | Feeling overwhelmed, unfair burden on her. |
| Be willing to compromise: Finding solutions that work for both of them. | Feeling like she always has to give in, arguments. |
| Be responsible with money: Paying bills on time, not spending more than they can afford. | Feeling stressed or worried about finances, lack of trust. |
| Help with errands or appointments: Offering to run errands or go to appointments with her. | Feeling like she has to do everything herself, lack of support. |
| Do his fair share of housework: Cleaning, cooking, taking care of pets, sharing the workload. | Feeling like she’s the only one doing chores, unfair burden. |
| Be there for her when she’s down: Offering a shoulder to cry on, listening without judgement. | Feeling alone or unsupported during difficult times. |
| Be willing to put in effort: Working on the relationship, keeping things exciting. | Feeling like the relationship is one-sided, lack of effort. |
| Be her best friend and partner: Someone she can trust, rely on, and have fun with. | Feeling lonely or like they’re just roommates, lack of connection. |
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